With great expectations, come not so great gifts. So take the responsibility of ensuring you get what you want and more importantly what you need, by setting up a gift list. Now, it may be customary to receive money envelopes as presents on your Big Day, but more and more couples are opting for zero possibility of receiving a naff fleece tiger blanket. With a greater choice of companies offering a wide selection of goods ands services, the sky really is the limit.

What to Get?

As often is the case when you're presented with infinite choice, you don't know where to start! The best way to approach you shopping spree, is to create a wish list of things you really want or need. If you have a shopping list you're more likely to choose things that you will use in the long run. If you have different interests, then indulge them both and go for options that will make you both happy.

Where to go?

Traditional Route

The most popular destination to have a gift list at is the trusted high street heavyweight; the nationwide department store. Places like John Lewis & House of Fraser are seasoned pros when it comes to gift lists. You get your own advisor and a hand terminal, which allows you to peruse the store and zap all the items you want on the list.

Alternative Route

If there is a company or shop that is better suited to you as a couple, then it's worth contacting them to see if they have a gift list service. Many places do nowadays, so you could stock up on all the things you love from your favourite shop.

Another option is to go to the one stop shop for gift lists; a specialist company. Online companies such as weddingshop.com & thegiftlistcompany.com are good places to start browsing. The great thing about online showrooms is that it's more readily accessible to your guests, regardless of where they are.

No Boxed Gifts Please

If there is something in particular that you would like your guests to contribute to such as your honeymoon, a deposit on a new home or a little marital nest egg, then don't be shy about asking for money. Think of it as a virtual money envelope. Companies such as thebottomdrawer.com can create an online fund, which your guests can gift to. Or if you're feeling generous, you can ask your guests to make donations to your favourite charity. Check out justgive.org for further info on setting up a wedding registry.

The Price is Right

It's also important to make sure you select a range of gifts that all your guests will be able to afford. Break down your shopping list into three main price points; low end - affordable, mid range - guests willing to spend more, and high end - luxury items for people that really want to spoil you. The majority of your guests will probably fall into the first two categories, so its essential that you have more options or quantities in those ranges.

Spread the Word

Getting the final list sorted can be exhaustive, so the last thing you want is for everyone to ignore it. Make sure that your guests are aware of your wishes by letting them know way in advance. The best thing to do is get your gift list information printed in your invitation card, or you can send one out separately. If postage is sooooo last year, then you can also send a reminder via email. Finally get the family gossip to spread the word, with any luck half the country will know by lunchtime.